Well they did align, and there was spontaneity. It's a Friday morning and after the schoolbus there are no kids, SO is not grumpy or at work, it's pouring down with rain (neighbours indoors) and nobody is likely to just drop in.I'd forgotten what SO had said about my bad language last weekend. We were due a 'little chat' apparently.
As a result I'm now in my office starting my day's work and the little chat has been had (hot butt in contact with hard computer chair). I have to say that even my all-too responsible life can occasionally be surprisingly - surprising.