Tuesday 5 June 2012

Firm words

I drank too much last night and my head aches. It took me ages to get up and out of bed this morning - I lay there feeling the pain behind my eyes and regretting how much red wine I downed last night.
We went to a friend's house to watch the Jubilee concert and got a bit carried away. I'm no great royalist, but I do love Tom Jones - and the wine was a little too good to resist.
I was, I think, a bit loud and a bit obnoxious. SO was driving, so today has no headache - and occupies the moral high-ground.
I stayed in bed nearly two hours after the rest of the household and it didn't take ESP to read SO's disapproval. I dozed, waited for the painkillers to dull the pain in my head - and fantasised about the severe scolding and brisk walloping my behaviour warranted.
It involved a duvet thrown back, my bare bottom and the sort of strapping that stays with you for a week. A sharp-edged lecture helped to put me firmly in my place.
It also occurred to me that I've missed significant moments with this blog. Not even one year to make a fuss about, but it has passed its half-year without me noticing, and the 100,000th hit went by without comment either.
What was I on about six months ago? Half a year ago I was preoccupied with the fine art of scolding - as I am today. Or being 'told off' as it's called where I spent my formative years.
A good telling off was something to be feared - a stern talking-to that nearly always did the trick. And does the trick; to this day a really good scolding presses my buttons in a very special way. Scolding without spanking works, spanking without scolding does not
If I'm honest, I suppose I'm a 'scoldo' more than a 'spanko'. In the depths of my hang-over this morning I knew I'd behaved poorly - and desperately wanted to be told as much.



11 comments:

  1. YOUNG LADY !! you know better than to behave the way you did last night ! There is NO acceptable reason that you should have had that much to drink , you shamed yourself as well as your guest and I am VERY angry about it.

    I will not have this type of behavior and it WILL be dealt with swiftly and properly .

    Get your bare bottom in that corner for 15 minutes and then we shall be taking you across the bed for a sound paddling . MOVE CORNER NOW !!

    You will remain grounded to your room tonight and write 200 times " I will not behave in this manner again with wine again "


    "smiles"

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  2. Not bad, but a bit shouty. I think it works better if the scolder remains calm - but scary:)

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    1. Wasnt meant as shouty , Punctuation of points . My voice is deep and I dont yell or shout young lady I DO however discipline hard !

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  3. My dear, I can not tell you how disappointed I was in you last night, to know that my sweet little girl allowed herself to get so out of control, what were you thinking? You have never allowed yourself to get so out of control before, you should be very ashamed of yourself, I know I was, and still am very ashamed of how you acted! I can not tell you how disappointed in you I was, and still am, you managed to ruin the fun for both of us, and I simply will not put up with it any more. It pains me a lot to have to punish you, but you must learn that actions such as what you did last night simply will not be tolerated! Come over here now, I want all your cloths off. and you over my knee, I hope the strap will help you remember next time that you are a Lady, my Lady, and I will not stand for a repeat performance............ *after a good sound strapping, a lot of cuddling and hugging to let you know that I still love you very much!*

    HUGS,
    Dave

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    1. Fair enough, I probably do deserve the strapping as outlined - but I'm not sure if I can live with 'my seet little girl'. Bit icky.

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    2. I was trying to put myself in the place of the one that really cares for you, hence calling you "my sweet little girl", but since you feel that is a bit icky, I will not make any more icky comments on your blog again!

      Dave

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    3. Sorry... I'm afraid I'm not the meek sort of scoldee. I like to back chat, it makes the whole process a bit more interesting:)

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  4. I must be a scoldo too. Spanking can be more than one kind of event, and I want to be able to distinguish it from something more mundane. I've been aware for many years that the physical act of spanking that was so compelling for me from early childhood on, doesn't actually define my kink. It's spanking within the context of discipline or punishment that is so attractive. When I fantasize about spanking, it's a lot about talking, establishing situations that make discipline relevant or lead to punishment, and then all the aspects of spanking that excite me can be realized. I think the disciplinarian must be mentally and/or emotionally invested in the circumstances, or the scolding is likely to be generic or cliched.

    With real-life adult discipline, what if the one needing the punishments is just too boring...er responsible to get themselves into trouble? When you've behaved poorly, and honestly earned your trouble, it's time to seize the opportunity. ;)

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    1. That's it - it's the verbal bit that makes a physical act into a bit of performance art. Done well it deserves a grant from the Arts Council:)

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  5. My voice would be soft and gentle......
    Always
    Ron

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    1. Too soft might be a problem. There's a happy medium after all.

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